Lilah
Dom

Lilah & Dom are getting  married and we'd love you to come

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The Venue

Thorpeness Country Club

The Venue

The Thorpeness Country Club, Suffolk UK

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Good to know

We’ve put together a short brochure with everything you might need to plan your trip including nearby hotels, travel info, a bit about why we chose Thorpeness, and some tips on things to do in the nearby town of Aldeburgh.

You can find it all here (PDF)

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The Timings

Everything you need to know

Everything you need to know

Timings

Please arrive for 13:30. The ceremony will start at 14:00 sharp.

We'll be adding some more information here closer to the date (we'll also email it!)

Can you make it?

Please let us know as soon as you can.

Dress code?

We would love you to see our wedding as an opportunity to get dressed up and have chosen a ‘formal’ dress code for this reason!


What does this mean?

Please wear a suit and tie or a formal dress (below the knee). If you have any dress code questions, please feel free to check with us - we love an outfit chat! Feel free to bring your own Kippah and we will have for guests who don't have.

FAQs

We've tried our best to anticipate questions you might have, but message us any time if they're not listed below.

Can I bring children?

We love your little ones, but we’ve decided to make our wedding an adults-only celebration. (Teenagers can be honourary adults). We really want everyone to be able to relax and enjoy the day from start to finish - so please think of it as a well-deserved night off!

Local cab info

There are local cab firms in the area, but you’ll need to book them in advance. We’ve included details of reliable cab companies, plus a few travel tips, in our wedding brochure - so be sure to check that for the best options!

What is a Jewish ceremony like?

We’re having a Jewish ceremony - it’ll be a mix of things you’ll recognise and a few new traditions if you haven’t been to one before! There’ll be a Chuppah (a wedding canopy), a few blessings in Hebrew, and the traditional breaking of the glass, amongst other traditions. All will be explained as we go, so you’ll know what’s happening and why. It’s a joyful, meaningful ceremony that we can’t wait to share with you!

Jewish ceremony dress code

As we’re Reform, there’s no special dress code beyond what you’d usually wear to a wedding. Feel free to dress comfortably and in line with our general dress code. We’ll have spare Kippahs (head coverings) available at the ceremony - these are traditionally worn by men, but anyone is welcome to put one on!

Are there any colours I should avoid wearing?

We know the internet has many rules on which colours you should or shouldn’t wear to a wedding. Please feel free to wear whichever colours you would like and feel comfortable in, except we ask you to avoid wearing a white dress. Our colour scheme is colourful, summery and has lots of pastels so feel free to lean into this as much as you would like - think wildflowers!

Registry

After the wedding, we’re off on our honeymoon to Singapore and Malaysia! Instead of a traditional gift list, we’ve set up a honeymoon fund with a few ways to contribute if you’d like to.

The best gift of all is celebrating with you on our wedding day, and we really mean that. We know it’s no small thing travelling for a wedding, and we’re so grateful to everyone making the trip.

Contribute to our honeymoon fund